My name is Naciima Ilyas, and I am 18 years old. I am a survivor of sexual assault. I was born in Harawa, Ethiopia and grew up there. When I was 15, I moved to Borama in search of a better life. Before starting my first job, I stayed with my grandmother. However, after a year, I wanted to be independent and started working as a house cleaner. Unfortunately, I did not have the opportunity to receive an education as my family believed that girls did not need education and that it was not important for them.
I began my first job as a house cleaner, where I met a man through a WhatsApp group. He reached out to me frequently, eventually asking me to enter into a relationship with him. At first, I was hesitant, but after some time, I accepted his offer. We were in a relationship for a year, during which he proposed to me. I accepted, thinking that he was a kind and caring individual. We began making plans for our future and our wedding.
One day, he mentioned wanting to show me the house he intended to rent for us after our wedding. He picked me up around 7:00pm, and we began driving. After some time, he took me to a dark area with many trees. When I questioned him about our location, he stopped the car and offered me a bottle of liquid. I believed it to be water, but after refusing, he attempted to force me to drink it. I fought back, attempting to escape, but he revealed a knife and injured my right hand before coercing me to drink the liquid. He raped me and left me unconscious. Fortunately, I was found by passersby who took me to the hospital. It was then confirmed that I had been raped.
I received support and assistance from WAAPO during my recovery journey. I stayed at their safehouse, where I received counseling and medical treatment. With their help, I was able to find justice and see my perpetrator brought to account for his actions. It was revealed that he was already married with children and had no intention of marrying me; instead, he sought to harm me. After three months at the safehouse, I was able to return to my grandmother's care.
WAAPO informed me about a tailoring program for women’s empowerment, I joined the program, it was a healing journey for me. I found purpose and hope in life through learning a new skill. The classes were held three days a week, and I was determined to make the most of it.
I am grateful to WAAPO and UNCIFE for providing me with this opportunity. I now have a skill, a new outlook on life, and a dream of starting my own business.
I am Naciima Ilyas, a survivor and fighter, and I will continue to advocate for awareness about gender based violence and support others in their healing journey. This is my story of resilience and hope for a better future.